I’ve experienced it – ast the one who’d give that reply, but NEVER to/from ANY actual family. Only those where trying to control/use me for something. So ZERO DAMNED SYMPATHY for that lot.
If you’re going to punish or correct, better begin with “why”. Explain a reason or more , then punish, then redirect into something more fruitful. I know … Orvan will fly without mechanical assist, next.
Tempest in a Teardrop: The Churchians 
Punishment for helping out the best you could.
That always goes over well.
Never any longer-term negative consequences.
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Including, “Oh, NOW you want my help after belittling it so? Why should I waste the effort to be hated again? Bugger off.”
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Yep. And don’t I know it!
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I’ve experienced it – ast the one who’d give that reply, but NEVER to/from ANY actual family. Only those where trying to control/use me for something. So ZERO DAMNED SYMPATHY for that lot.
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Agreed.
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If you’re going to punish or correct, better begin with “why”. Explain a reason or more , then punish, then redirect into something more fruitful. I know … Orvan will fly without mechanical assist, next.
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Twist is certainly on board with your plan, but it does require the explainee to be hearing the explaination!
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